Parents Often Wait Until They’re Desperate Before Seeking Help for Their Troubled Teen
Eugene O’Neill called it “A Long Day’s Journey Into Night.” The nightmare of living with drug abuse or alcoholism is like that for family members. Most parents with a teenager who is out of control stay in the nightmare for too long before they finally seek help. Most wait until the situation is completely desperate before using a residential therapy program. Their own lives become completely disrupted and they are in constant conflict with their child. They live in fear of things like HIV infections, drug overdoses, automobile accidents, unwanted pregnancies, and incarcerations. By the time they act, they are usually afraid for their child’s life.
A mother talked about her fears for her fourteen-year-old son:
Drugs are ruining my son’s life. I am past being mad about it. I am heart-broken. I have a constant deep empty pain in my chest. I cried the night he was arrested and I have cried buckets ever since.
A father of a young teenaged girl allows himself to think the unthinkable:
I was surprised when I found you and your boyfriend in bed with a bottle of gin. I knew the day would come sooner or later but not at thirteen years old. I am aware of all the boys coming in and out of our house and I am afraid to think about where you are getting the money for your drug habit. That I can even consider that is impossible to me.
Aspen Education Group offers a variety of programs to help you and your child.
Aspen offers therapeutic boarding schools, residential treatment centers, and outdoor wilderness therapy programs for children, adolescents, and adults. Our unique treatment programs work with youth and adults who typically need help with risky behaviors, alcohol or substance abuse, academic underachievement, emotional immaturity, depression, and low self-esteem. From early intervention to residential treatment to a sober living environment, we’re here to ensure your child gets the treatment they need and the tools to grow into a healthy, successful young adult.
Island View is a licensed residential treatment center for adolescents struggling with substance abuse and behavioral issues. The program at Island View ensures a safe, predictable, organized and supportive environment where residents are taught and encouraged to overcome maladaptive and self-defeating behaviors and are challenged to acquire and practice pro-social behaviors.
NorthStar Center offers a sober living environment for college age students. Located in Bend, Oregon, NorthStar helps young adults transform their lives on their journey to self-discovery and sobriety. At NorthStar, all students receive personal academic assistance, individual and group counseling, and ongoing support in becoming a responsible young adult.
Call (866) 845-1391 to learn more about our programs.